I got nothin' here...

So I just found out last night, as I spent over an hour cleaning a moldy fridge, that my roommate has decided that smoking is pretty cool or whatever. I am not really sure what triggered it in the first place besides the new group of people she started hanging out with, you know the crowd your parents always warned you about? But beyond that, I also found out that she is blaming me for the smoking habit. She seems to think that I am so stressful in her life that she needed something to calm her down. The funny thing is, I never see her, I spend maybe ten minutes of an average day with her.
Now you tell me how I am to blame for her new habit?
I must say, hearing someone blame you for something that could kill them is probably one of the most devastating things you could ever hear in your life.
All I can say right now is try to be a light in a smokers life because you never know when it might turn around and hurt someone totally innocent.
My other roommates boyfriend just told us that his mom has lung cancer that spread to her brain and she has never once smoked. Go figure.
Just be careful with the things you do and the choices that you make, because the things that you say and do could destroy someone else in the long run.

The Miracle of Life

So my cousins just had a healthy beautiful baby boy who weighed in at nine pounds ten ounces. Another miracle to our family. Now we just have to wait till Febuary till Katy and Billy have their baby. And I can not wait. I am so excited.
But here is what I was thinking, I just got a fish, who in one day gave birth to eighteen little babies. They are so cute and tiny. But can you imagine popping out that many at one time, or at all for that matter. We have one at a time and we are over whelmed.
So props to Big Momma, my fish, for her hard work and excellent parenting.
And think about that next time your one child makes you feel tired.....

Friends

Been blessed with the best...

I don't know how many people beyond my family read this, but I just want to throw this out there...just for the pure luck that someone runs across it.
Families are the most amazing thing in the world. I don't know how many people realize what great friends they could have in their lives if they just got a little closer to their brothers and sisters and more importantly, their parents.
I recieved some really good news at work today, that I was being bumped up in pay, because I do a good job. After this was told to me, I could not wait to go on my lunch break and call my parents to tell them the news, because I knew that they both would know how much this truly meant. Not only that, but when I got on my lunch break, I had a message waiting from my sister. So I got to start out by talking to her.
How lucky am I? For real, to have recieved the most amazing gift of such an awesome and loving ...nope closeknit, family.
It counts to know that someone really cares about you...
Hold on to that.